"grief may be a thing we have in common, but it looks different on every one
it isn't just death we have to grief
it's life, it's lost, it's change
and when we wonder why it has to suck so much some times,
has to hurt soo bad,
the thing we gotta try to remember is that it can turn on a dame
and that's how you stay alive, when it hurts soo bad you can't breathe,
that's how you survive
by remembering that one day, somehow, impossibly,
you won't feel this way, it won't hurt this much.
grief come in it's own time for everyone, in it's own way
so the best we can do, the best anyone can do, is to try for honesty
the really crapy thing, the very worst part of grief, is that you can't control it
the best we can do is try to let ourselves feel it when it comes
and let it go when we can
the very worst part is that the minute you think you are past
it starts all over again
and always, every time, it takes your breath away."
